“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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so this girl i was seeing basically dumped me. I didn't really care. Then months later she found out I was talking to a chic hotter than her. All of a sudden the chic that dumped me is emailing me and wants to come over to "see" me, and I turned her ass down. Felt pretty damn good. Women :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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musclyjerk said:
Nice one. Stand strong! Don't bend or give in if she persists else your good work will go to waste!

I wanna see more of these posts in the forum.

The Muscly Jerk
yeah.. i'm going to wait awhile and just be her "friend" and maybe hit it later (again) if she still wants a rerun of the Thugo express :)
 

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Thugo said:
so this girl i was seeing basically dumped me. I didn't really care. Then months later she found out I was talking to a chic hotter than her. All of a sudden the chic that dumped me is emailing me and wants to come over to "see" me, and I turned her ass down. Felt pretty damn good. Women :rolleyes:

:rolleyes: So she just sent me an Ecard lol.. what should I say back?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you have no intention of taking her back, try to push it as much as you can!!!!

Make her give you bj's. When you're done, just say. . ."thanks." and walk out.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
That's all you need to say. Speaks volumes in her mind.

Thanks man... done. This b1tch showed no mercy. I actually really liked her, then dumps me. Calls me dumb, dull, stupid. Then months later is sending me cards wanting to come f@ck just cuz she saw me talking to a hotter chic, or holiday blues i don't know. How should I handle this b1tch.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thugo ever want to impress a boss, teacher, friend, and when they didn't seem to care about what you did or had to say you felt shattered?

Think of your ex as the employee and you're the boss who doesn't care. Instead of saying, "haha that was awesome, we should hang out sometime" a thanks says, "yeah cool, go **** yourself".

Bada Bing baby bada bing!
 

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itishe said:
Thugo ever want to impress a boss, teacher, friend, and when they didn't seem to care about what you did or had to say you felt shattered?

Think of your ex as the employee and you're the boss who doesn't care. Instead of saying, "haha that was awesome, we should hang out sometime" a thanks says, "yeah cool, go **** yourself".

Bada Bing baby bada bing!

lol yeah i want to have fun with this. it's not every day a girl dumps me and then regrets it.. actually this might be the first time. :whistle:
 

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Thugo said:
Thanks man... done. This b1tch showed no mercy. I actually really liked her, then dumps me. Calls me dumb, dull, stupid. Then months later is sending me cards wanting to come f@ck just cuz she saw me talking to a hotter chic, or holiday blues i don't know. How should I handle this b1tch.
Any dishrag cvnt who disrespects you, ie; calling you names or showing bad behaviour, must be dealt with swiftly and without mercy. By definition she is an Attention Wh0re who thrives on guys' short term memory. The kryptonite against this b!tch is do what she loathes above all else. Disregard her completely. Move on to another girl with whom you can hang your head high.

If you feel you must say something to her in retort, Thank you is all she gets. Not a letter more.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Any dishrag cvnt who disrespects you, ie; calling you names or showing bad behaviour, must be dealt with swiftly and without mercy. By definition she is an Attention Wh0re who thrives on guys' short term memory. The kryptonite against this b!tch is do what she loathes above all else. Disregard her completely. Move on to another girl with whom you can hang your head high.

If you feel you must say something to her in retort, Thank you is all she gets. Not a letter more.
lol that was a great post. I really don't have a desire to see her again. rep point added.
 

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That's all she gets though Thugo - if you keep responding to her, she will insist on trying to contact you still just for a response, and she will get kicks out of it.

After you've said Thanks, just leave it and ignore her for the rest of your life.

Keep up the good work.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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musclyjerk said:
That's all she gets though Thugo - if you keep responding to her, she will insist on trying to contact you still just for a response, and she will get kicks out of it.

After you've said Thanks, just leave it and ignore her for the rest of your life.

Keep up the good work.

The Muscly Jerk
yeah man.. too bad the ex's i do want to see again ignore me while the one's I don't want to see contact me. That's how it goes unfortunately.
 

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Thugo said:
so this girl i was seeing basically dumped me. I didn't really care. Then months later she found out I was talking to a chic hotter than her. All of a sudden the chic that dumped me is emailing me and wants to come over to "see" me, and I turned her ass down. Felt pretty damn good. Women :rolleyes:
works back then works today works tommorow,,but still guys forget it...lolz...
 

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works back then works today works tommorow,,but still guys forget it...lolz...

well i'll tell you one thing i've learned in my life so far through experience

get dumped and show them you are hurt = never see her again forever

get dumped and show them you dont care and go sarge = they want your c0ck again

:crazy:
 

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This reminds me of a phenomenon I've noticed in pop-culture. Remember watching Saved by the Bell and other teen shows of the 80's and 90's? If you do, do you remember whenever a character got dumped, they'd either cry or go get a rebound. The script always rewarded the man who sat home single and cried while she got the train ran on her by the football team, while the man who gets a rebound is regarded as a prick and somehow his ex avoids all feelings of jealousy.

Couldn't be any greater example of backwardness.

Another example of brainwashing in my view.
 

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good work thugo. i've seen alot of girls lately who have gotten back with their exs all due to christmas and the new years coming up. my next door neighbor dumped her boyfriend for the guy she was cheating with. all the guy was looking for from her was a few booty calls and it ended and just this week she and her ex have been hanging out alot probably due to seeing couples shopping together and friends talking about what they are getting their boyfriend for christmas. it is quite sad.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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