So basically I got dumped (over the phone) in a really disrespectful way by my gf of 3 months lastnite. I dont know why as she didnt really make it clear and just pretty much went crazy on me and said all sorts of angry nonsense accusing me of 'taking advantage of her' and using her and playing mind games. It was all total BS so I told her to quit the BS cos shes knows none of its true. In short it sounded like she had gona abit crazy and lost the plot and none of what she was saying as reasons for dumping me actually made any sort of coherent sense. It didnt seem like she had really thought about or indeed knew what she was doing, she really did sound crazy. Then she started telling me how she needs a break but she wants to see me again in 4 days. She didnt really give me a reason and didnt actually say its over, I was the one who told her I dont wanna carry on cos its clearly not working.
I went out and got drunk after this (bad idea I know) and ended up txting her lastnite saying all sorts of crap about how Ill always love her and that I said some things I didnt mean earlier (id been quite nasty to her when she pulled all the BS). I know this was a stupid move and should have know better.
Wake up this morning and she'd txted me saying she has 'serious problems with herself' and that her life is ****ed and that shes 'not right at all at the moment'. and that she hopes we can be friends. I told her I dont want to be friends with her and that if she sorts her head out to give me a call sometime (she knows I dont see the point of staying friends aswell as during our relationship I told her how I never stayed friends with exes). Shes maintained friendship with her exes and im sure she likes the attention she still gets from them.
This afternoon she txts me saying how she loves me and I make her happy but that shes just tired and needs rest. I (stupidly) txt her back saying 'stop feeling sorry for yourself and moaning about nothing. You need to chill out'.
Now 4 hours later she just txt me saying 'How are you doing?'.
WTF is this all about? Ive told her im not interested in being friends and have decided im gonna go No Contact with her from now on. Why do you guys think she is still txting me?? Guilt?? Or is she testing me in someway?? Is NC the way to go?? Should I respond to her 'how are you txt'??
TBH shes abit of a drama queen and has proven by her actions lastnite that shes not a very stable person. I know its pointless trying to work out what happend (this came totally our of the blue, when I told my friends today they both said that she seemed smitten with me even 3 days ago) but I figure I have been too much of a 'nice guy' and have let her have her own way abit too much. Yeah Ive teased her and broke her back at times but generally Id definetly become abit complacent/too available and it felt like I was the one doing all the work/running.
I dont even think I want her back as shes disrespected me and behaved like a bit of a lunatic. Wouldnt mind banging her again though and TBH the whole thing was abit weird for a 'dump' and it didnt feel like she completely meant it or knew what she was doing. I suspect shes trying to pull some BS game on me and seeing how I'll react.
I went out and got drunk after this (bad idea I know) and ended up txting her lastnite saying all sorts of crap about how Ill always love her and that I said some things I didnt mean earlier (id been quite nasty to her when she pulled all the BS). I know this was a stupid move and should have know better.
Wake up this morning and she'd txted me saying she has 'serious problems with herself' and that her life is ****ed and that shes 'not right at all at the moment'. and that she hopes we can be friends. I told her I dont want to be friends with her and that if she sorts her head out to give me a call sometime (she knows I dont see the point of staying friends aswell as during our relationship I told her how I never stayed friends with exes). Shes maintained friendship with her exes and im sure she likes the attention she still gets from them.
This afternoon she txts me saying how she loves me and I make her happy but that shes just tired and needs rest. I (stupidly) txt her back saying 'stop feeling sorry for yourself and moaning about nothing. You need to chill out'.
Now 4 hours later she just txt me saying 'How are you doing?'.
WTF is this all about? Ive told her im not interested in being friends and have decided im gonna go No Contact with her from now on. Why do you guys think she is still txting me?? Guilt?? Or is she testing me in someway?? Is NC the way to go?? Should I respond to her 'how are you txt'??
TBH shes abit of a drama queen and has proven by her actions lastnite that shes not a very stable person. I know its pointless trying to work out what happend (this came totally our of the blue, when I told my friends today they both said that she seemed smitten with me even 3 days ago) but I figure I have been too much of a 'nice guy' and have let her have her own way abit too much. Yeah Ive teased her and broke her back at times but generally Id definetly become abit complacent/too available and it felt like I was the one doing all the work/running.
I dont even think I want her back as shes disrespected me and behaved like a bit of a lunatic. Wouldnt mind banging her again though and TBH the whole thing was abit weird for a 'dump' and it didnt feel like she completely meant it or knew what she was doing. I suspect shes trying to pull some BS game on me and seeing how I'll react.