"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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JoeSchmoe05

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Hi, since there is no gym at my apt complex and I don't want to pay the outrageous gym fees at 24 hour, I'm looking for a cheap way to get ahold of some equipment so I can work out at home. I think a simple pair of dumbells will work really well as I can get a lot of exercises out of them (opinions?). I probably want to get something that is adjustable from 5 to 50ish lbs. If anyone has any suggestions on what brand or type to get, or if I'm even on the right track here, I'd appreciate them. Thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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incognito42

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Great idea. You might wanna try those bow-flex DBs they advertise on TV all the time. The kind that adjust from like 5-55 lbs, they look pretty neat and wont take up much room. You also might wanna pick up the Body For Life book, it has tons of workouts for DBs, and has a lot of great info for taking care of your body, I think its about $20
 

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I'd look for something that goes heavier than 50 lbs because that's gonna end up being really limiting. After a few weeks you'll be pumping out 20+ reps on all your exercises.

Edit: And as a side note... I've seen the ads for the bowflex dumbells, and as nice as they look, I'd go somewhere else personally. Just don't put much faith in their products (especially considering they had problems with overhead bars breaking or something? yikes:eek: )
 

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I can't seem to find a dumbbell set higher than 50lbs on gijoes website. Does anyone know someone who carries a bigger set? Or will I have to buy addons
 

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yeah dude... depending on how built you wanna be, you might need DB's up to like 100-120 lbs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What I did was start off with a no nonsense iron disc set, cheap and fuctional, don't pay for gimmicky brand name stuff.

Start lifting and just keep an eye out for second hand discs, you will almost certainly pick up a barbell with them cheap. You'll find loads of people giving them away almost, because they've quit.

You may want to get some micro discs, very useful for progression.
 
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