"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dumbells For Squats? No Spotter for Squats When Bulking?

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Basically, I don't have a spotter. I live with my folks, and have a gym in my room. I don't have a power rack yet, but I will get one some time and this wouldn't be an issue.

For the time being though, I was thinking of doing squats by either...

1) Using dumbells, so I could just drop them.

2) Or with a regular barbell...but how would I just drop it if I go to failure on the last rep? Are there any ways you can do this to avoid hurting yourself?

I could put a lot of weight on the dumbells also, but I'm not sure how effect that is compared to with a barbell. Are there any particular forms or methods of squatting (ie, bar grip, etc) that are recommended when you are just trying to life big and gain weight?

I'd appreciate any links/tips/advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sounds hard on the shoulders. definitely get a power rack.
 

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Try hack squats. Or powerclean the weight up to a front squat if you can.

I used to do hack squats until I realised I could raise my bench up and just grab the front squat position.
 

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join a gym? If that really isn't an option then do hack squats, for now
 

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Wow, I missed that. You can't work out in your room! When you'r deadlifting/squating twice your bodyweight you don't want to be droping it, It would go straight through the floor! Work out in the garage.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have the exact same issue. I used to just do them with dumbells but it wasn't as effective, for the time being I just, as the others said, do hack squats and front squats some of the time. Hopefully I should be getting a power rack by the end of the month... any idea how much they usually cost?
 

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Cool, thanks, I'll do the hack squats for now. Yeah, I'll do it in the garage or in the driveway probably. I can go to my school's gym for free, but it's small and always so crowded that you have to wait to use some weights...it's not worth it. Yeah, I want to get a power rack but it seems like none of the sporting goods stores have them in my area. I have to buy online I guess. ^They're like $300 I think.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Basically, I don't have a spotter. I live with my folks, and have a gym in my room. I don't have a power rack yet, but I will get one some time and this wouldn't be an issue.

For the time being though, I was thinking of doing squats by either...

1) Using dumbells, so I could just drop them.

2) Or with a regular barbell...but how would I just drop it if I go to failure on the last rep? Are there any ways you can do this to avoid hurting yourself?

I could put a lot of weight on the dumbells also, but I'm not sure how effect that is compared to with a barbell. Are there any particular forms or methods of squatting (ie, bar grip, etc) that are recommended when you are just trying to life big and gain weight?

I'd appreciate any links/tips/advice.
Here's an article: Ways to Squat When You Don’t Have a Squat Rack

The problem with dumbbells is you will never be able to go as heavy as with a back squat. Alternatives:
-front squat preceded by a clean
-steinborn lift
-zercher squat
 

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I can hack squat more then I can squat. Much easer to get the right form also.
 

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What if you're doing rippetoe? I do squats, deads and bench in the same workout.
Are hack squats too much like deads?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DarthJuan said:
What if you're doing rippetoe? I do squats, deads and bench in the same workout.
Are hack squats too much like deads?
Yes hack squats are more like a deadlift.
 
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