"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dumbells For Squats? No Spotter for Squats When Bulking?

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Basically, I don't have a spotter. I live with my folks, and have a gym in my room. I don't have a power rack yet, but I will get one some time and this wouldn't be an issue.

For the time being though, I was thinking of doing squats by either...

1) Using dumbells, so I could just drop them.

2) Or with a regular barbell...but how would I just drop it if I go to failure on the last rep? Are there any ways you can do this to avoid hurting yourself?

I could put a lot of weight on the dumbells also, but I'm not sure how effect that is compared to with a barbell. Are there any particular forms or methods of squatting (ie, bar grip, etc) that are recommended when you are just trying to life big and gain weight?

I'd appreciate any links/tips/advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Create Reality

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sounds hard on the shoulders. definitely get a power rack.
 

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Try hack squats. Or powerclean the weight up to a front squat if you can.

I used to do hack squats until I realised I could raise my bench up and just grab the front squat position.
 

EFFORT

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join a gym? If that really isn't an option then do hack squats, for now
 

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Wow, I missed that. You can't work out in your room! When you'r deadlifting/squating twice your bodyweight you don't want to be droping it, It would go straight through the floor! Work out in the garage.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have the exact same issue. I used to just do them with dumbells but it wasn't as effective, for the time being I just, as the others said, do hack squats and front squats some of the time. Hopefully I should be getting a power rack by the end of the month... any idea how much they usually cost?
 

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Cool, thanks, I'll do the hack squats for now. Yeah, I'll do it in the garage or in the driveway probably. I can go to my school's gym for free, but it's small and always so crowded that you have to wait to use some weights...it's not worth it. Yeah, I want to get a power rack but it seems like none of the sporting goods stores have them in my area. I have to buy online I guess. ^They're like $300 I think.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Basically, I don't have a spotter. I live with my folks, and have a gym in my room. I don't have a power rack yet, but I will get one some time and this wouldn't be an issue.

For the time being though, I was thinking of doing squats by either...

1) Using dumbells, so I could just drop them.

2) Or with a regular barbell...but how would I just drop it if I go to failure on the last rep? Are there any ways you can do this to avoid hurting yourself?

I could put a lot of weight on the dumbells also, but I'm not sure how effect that is compared to with a barbell. Are there any particular forms or methods of squatting (ie, bar grip, etc) that are recommended when you are just trying to life big and gain weight?

I'd appreciate any links/tips/advice.
Here's an article: Ways to Squat When You Don’t Have a Squat Rack

The problem with dumbbells is you will never be able to go as heavy as with a back squat. Alternatives:
-front squat preceded by a clean
-steinborn lift
-zercher squat
 

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I can hack squat more then I can squat. Much easer to get the right form also.
 

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What if you're doing rippetoe? I do squats, deads and bench in the same workout.
Are hack squats too much like deads?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DarthJuan said:
What if you're doing rippetoe? I do squats, deads and bench in the same workout.
Are hack squats too much like deads?
Yes hack squats are more like a deadlift.
 
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