I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ok, same thing I said.Originally posted by Turalyon999
Just having dumbells doing 4-6 reps isn't going to help much, unless there pretty hefty.
If he doesn't have access to a gym, how is he supposed to do that? Cool, my name was typed...Originally posted by Turalyon999
What you need to do, is figure out how many reps you normally do in the gym with those exercises that crazy kid suggested.
NO! NO! NO! You can NOT cut the weight in half, do double the reps, and expect the same results. Thats the same thing as saying "run a quarter of a mile and check your time. Multiply that by four and you have your mile time." There is a much different feeling between 4 reps on a heavy weight versus 8 simple reps on half that weight.Originally posted by Turalyon999
Then what you need to do is see how the two weights compare (the dumbells you have and what you normally do in the gym) example: if you normally curl 200 and do 4 reps, and the dumbells you have are each 50, for a total weight of 100, you could do 8 reps and get the same benefit.
This is for working in exacts, I usually just try to go until failure each set. So do that if you can.
Turalyon