"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop, you dont have a clue what to do yourself, so stop telling other people what to do. Go out in the fu8cking world and practice this sh1t and discuss it with more experienced Djs before you start giving advice to people that need help.

If you wanna quote the bible line for line, feel free, but anything you pul out of your ass, well you can just put it back cause we dont want it.


Ever hear of the blind leading the blind? Well you f8cking know if youre blind so f8ucking stop trying to lead.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Jester
Stop, you dont have a clue what to do yourself, so stop telling other people what to do. Go out in the fu8cking world and practice this sh1t and discuss it with more experienced Djs before you start giving advice to people that need help.

If you wanna quote the bible line for line, feel free, but anything you pul out of your ass, well you can just put it back cause we dont want it.


Ever hear of the blind leading the blind? Well you f8cking know if youre blind so f8ucking stop trying to lead.
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True. Most of your limited personal experiences coincide with your results. 90% of the time its bullshit conjecture. Unless what you are saying is field tested and over the 75% success mark, you are confident about your answer and you can back it up if needed, please shut up, eh?

Nevertheless, I'd take everything I see here with a grain of salt. Do, try, experience, expriment; I cannot describe or tell you the taste of honey until you experience it upon your tongue.
 
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On the other hand, there's nothing wrong with adding a speculative suggestion.

~ivan
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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