"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude's got no game

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This guy started a Facebook group for singles in the area. It's a more smaller town, so the membership is still in the double digits.

Quite a few relationship/dating memes have been going up lately, then he posted one that would only be funny....to men or something you'd only say in a group of men, but since it's a mixed gender....well, it wasn't well received by the ladies.

Something about how a "relationship doesn't start with a first kiss, but the first ...fart."

All the ladies reacted with comments of disdain. One expressed how her last relationship ended because her boyfriend acted like a caveman and one said that was horrible to say on a message board like that with women present.

He started backpeddling, apologizing and then he asked one of them if she still planned on going to an event later and she said, "Not if the men are going to be farting there!"

Hm, I dunno, what would make her think that...but...whatever. Not sure how she tied his meme to the fact that men of the group will be farting in her presence now. I think she even left the FB group. lol

Would you say the ladies overracted, or did they have a right to be disgusted by the bathroom humor?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just goes to show how men love the stability comfort stage and women expert constant Disney movie stuff.
Yeah, I found it to be an unusual reaction since most of the community in the area is of a blue-collar variety where women, although they act like ladies, can at least chuckle at something like that. I mean, the area is all-out redneck in nature. So it was an unexpected reaction.
 
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