"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dude's got no game

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This guy started a Facebook group for singles in the area. It's a more smaller town, so the membership is still in the double digits.

Quite a few relationship/dating memes have been going up lately, then he posted one that would only be funny....to men or something you'd only say in a group of men, but since it's a mixed gender....well, it wasn't well received by the ladies.

Something about how a "relationship doesn't start with a first kiss, but the first ...fart."

All the ladies reacted with comments of disdain. One expressed how her last relationship ended because her boyfriend acted like a caveman and one said that was horrible to say on a message board like that with women present.

He started backpeddling, apologizing and then he asked one of them if she still planned on going to an event later and she said, "Not if the men are going to be farting there!"

Hm, I dunno, what would make her think that...but...whatever. Not sure how she tied his meme to the fact that men of the group will be farting in her presence now. I think she even left the FB group. lol

Would you say the ladies overracted, or did they have a right to be disgusted by the bathroom humor?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just goes to show how men love the stability comfort stage and women expert constant Disney movie stuff.
Yeah, I found it to be an unusual reaction since most of the community in the area is of a blue-collar variety where women, although they act like ladies, can at least chuckle at something like that. I mean, the area is all-out redneck in nature. So it was an unexpected reaction.
 
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