Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dude really? Comon..

exile663dfx

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I really thought I should vent on this subject

Dude really? Comon.. What is going on here. All I see is people complaining about things they have absolutely no control over, same old post after post, ranting about ex gf's and why they get no lay, unrealistic expectations and people who have a stick so far up their ass everything is a debate. Where are the success stories, the real shlt to learn from? Where are the boot-camps, learning material. Have I reached the end of learning at SOSUAVE?

Anybody else feel the same?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnChops

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lol god yes. the same old "uhhhh i need my girlfriend back how do i get her back?!" same answer- move on and forget her. Same response " but ughhh i love her! shes my queen blah blah bull****!" im sick of seeing this **** on here . No worries still a lot of DJs on here that help. Go check out the articles to learn more duhh
 

SgtSplacker

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Forums like these people come to when they need help. When things are going well peeps usually concentrate on their lives. Only a couple people here have their stuff straight, most everyone here is still trying to better themselves. So nope this is not a forum of PROs giving away their "5 words to get a girl in bed" secrets.
 

European-DJ

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To be honest... Yes i miss the good posters..

But i think alot of great DJ's are active..

One, whoms articles i especially enjoy is Jariels...

But then again

Many more
5string, Atom Slasher........ (damn, after 10 hours of sales, my mind is a bit tired haha)
 

MM92

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I just hate stupid people on here. And people that come on here for advice, people give them correct advice and they act like a 12 year old girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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perseverance

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If you're getting fed up Sosuave, then you are free to leave the forum.

These kinds of posts are just as irritating as the posts you mention.
 

exile663dfx

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perseverance said:
If you're getting fed up Sosuave, then you are free to leave the forum.

These kinds of posts are just as irritating as the posts you mention.
Great idea, thanks for letting me know what I am free to do and not to do. You're contradicting yourself. If I am free to leave i'm free to make this thread. But you have a point. I got no further insight here. Appriciate your concern, but it's time to leave sosuave.
 
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exile663dfx said:
Great idea, thanks for letting me know what I am free to do and not to do. You're contradicting yourself. If I am free to leave i'm free to make this thread. But you have a point. I got no further insight here. Appriciate your concern, but it's time to leave sosuave.
Don't let the door hit you on the way out. :)
 

loveorlust

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exile663dfx said:
I really thought I should vent on this subject

Dude really? Comon.. What is going on here. All I see is people complaining about things they have absolutely no control over, same old post after post, ranting about ex gf's and why they get no lay, unrealistic expectations and people who have a stick so far up their ass everything is a debate. Where are the success stories, the real shlt to learn from? Where are the boot-camps, learning material. Have I reached the end of learning at SOSUAVE?

Anybody else feel the same?

Haha, all I see is someone complaining about other people complaining.

To answer your question, no I don't feel the same way. If you don't like it here, don't post or read. People come here to get help. Others come here to help. If neither group is good for you, maybe you should find another forum. No pun intended by the way.

Good luck and all the best with women.
 

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European-DJ said:
To be honest... Yes i miss the good posters..

But i think alot of great DJ's are active..

One, whoms articles i especially enjoy is Jariels...

But then again

Many more
5string, Atom Slasher........ (damn, after 10 hours of sales, my mind is a bit tired haha)
LOL, thanks for the props, but I don't slash 'em, I smash 'em. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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isnt all the learning material in the DJ bible? and the true success stories are very far and few inbetween. we shoul make a collection of the success stories and successful improvement journals.
 

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The top characteristic of an AFC is their negativity. So this forum is inherently bound to be filled with negativity. The second top trait of an AFC is his belief that he is a special butterfly, whose problems nobody else has. Hence you'll find a site full of negativity and repetitive issues.
 

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It's a lack of action, self deprecation and too much over-thinking going on that gets kinda irritating reading about. Guys know they should get out there and start meeting people and making field reports but instead they ignore that and focus on trivial / minor things instead. Seriously 95% of the guys on here's issues are that they have no experience and make no real attempts to get any. It was the same way when I taught pick up. The guys would only talk about pick up but they would never go and talk to girls, or they would try to leech off girls I would start talking to.

THIS SH*T IS F*CKING EASY BOYS, JUST GET OFF YOUR A$$ AND GO CHAT EM UP!!!! LOTS OF EM SO YOU ARE SWEATING JUST ONE GIRL SO F*CKING MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I first discovered this site in 2004 or 2005. Which seems to be when most of the good posters left. It looked like when the site first started it was mainly Mature men. Now, Its alot of younger guys in their 20's and high schoolers.

I just like to read posts from the Mature guys back in 2000. Or other inspiring threads in the Bible. Most my answers are there anyways.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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perseverance said:
If you're getting fed up Sosuave, then you are free to leave the forum.

These kinds of posts are just as irritating as the posts you mention.
I agree. It's like people who get all b*tchy when Facebook changes it layout. The website is free, you signed up here by choice, so you can unsubscribe if you want.
 

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I don't understand the fascination with field reports. I usually get bored with them after about a half a page. "Said hi to three girls today.". "Danced with five girls at the club tonight, kiss closed one". Meh.

I can understand the idea of keeping yourself accountable by posting, but they're usually deadly boring to read.
 

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Yeah, but don't fucckin read 'em then! Close the tab immediately you feel the article seems more of a waste of time than anything beneficial. Don't even bother opening 'em if you feel the need not to.... Simple as that.

No amount of talk would stop the posting of such, so truthfully y'all just complaining about complains, and that's gay too.

The only solution is if sosuave somehow divides DonJuan discussion boards into further sections, which i don't really think is a good idea... Asides that, Expect more.
 

Who Dares Win

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What actually lack in this forum is more people who hit the field and make a report here, where we can learn what works and whats not.

In order to improve,its important that someone show you what to do as much as you then perform it yourself.
Did you get some explanation before riding a car or you learned by yourself totally?

So guys go out, try to succeed and wheter you do it or not come back and lets talk about it.
 

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zekko said:
I don't understand the fascination with field reports. I usually get bored with them after about a half a page. "Said hi to three girls today.". "Danced with five girls at the club tonight, kiss closed one". Meh.

I can understand the idea of keeping yourself accountable by posting, but they're usually deadly boring to read.
You're supossed to learn from their mistakes and successes, as well as provide advice on them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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