"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude gets on his knee with a ring, asks my friend to be his GF. Thoughts?

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In all fairness I think the practice of holding out is totally FOS. But I would accept it from a girl that has a sterling history. I mean I should not be able to discover a single thing that suggests any deviant behaviors sexual or otherwise. She should not drink, go out, have ANY male friends, very limited EX boyfriends, never wear anything even remotely revealing, no drug or alcohol use, must really be someone that has just literally spent their entire lives at home studying and praying and stuff.

And even then I would be really worried that her decisions were being made from inexperience and not preference...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SgtSplacker said:
In all fairness I think the practice of holding out is totally FOS. But I would accept it from a girl that has a sterling history. I mean I should not be able to discover a single thing that suggests any deviant behaviors sexual or otherwise. She should not drink, go out, have ANY male friends, very limited EX boyfriends, never wear anything even remotely revealing, no drug or alcohol use, must really be someone that has just literally spent their entire lives at home studying and praying and stuff.

And even then I would be really worried that her decisions were being made from inexperience and not preference...
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I completely disagree. Why should a girl have to not have ANY males friends and not wear anything revealing + everything else you just said b/c she doesnt want to have sex?

I dont think any of that is related. She wears short shorts and shows lots of leg and whatever, who cares?
 
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