"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude gets on his knee with a ring, asks my friend to be his GF. Thoughts?

SgtSplacker

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In all fairness I think the practice of holding out is totally FOS. But I would accept it from a girl that has a sterling history. I mean I should not be able to discover a single thing that suggests any deviant behaviors sexual or otherwise. She should not drink, go out, have ANY male friends, very limited EX boyfriends, never wear anything even remotely revealing, no drug or alcohol use, must really be someone that has just literally spent their entire lives at home studying and praying and stuff.

And even then I would be really worried that her decisions were being made from inexperience and not preference...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SgtSplacker said:
In all fairness I think the practice of holding out is totally FOS. But I would accept it from a girl that has a sterling history. I mean I should not be able to discover a single thing that suggests any deviant behaviors sexual or otherwise. She should not drink, go out, have ANY male friends, very limited EX boyfriends, never wear anything even remotely revealing, no drug or alcohol use, must really be someone that has just literally spent their entire lives at home studying and praying and stuff.

And even then I would be really worried that her decisions were being made from inexperience and not preference...
I completely disagree. Why should a girl have to not have ANY males friends and not wear anything revealing + everything else you just said b/c she doesnt want to have sex?

I dont think any of that is related. She wears short shorts and shows lots of leg and whatever, who cares?
 
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