Dual invitation to the same Christmas Party

[grayclif]

I was invited to the same Christmas Party by two different women I'm dating. I declined since I had previous plans but what if I had accepted. Both ladies are way into me so I don't think they had a plan B.

My question is how would you guys handle seeing a plate while on a date with another, especially since I was asked by the other lady as well. Yeah, I get the non exclusive thing but feelings would certainly be hurt.

 

[Desdinova]

You tell them you'll meet them there. Show less affection to both of them, but divide your time equally between the two. You'll be walking on eggshells all night.

You're better off declining.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Grayclif,
The First Commandment for prospective Plate spinners is They shalt not meet...happens now and then
however clever you are,just duck out the back Jack!

 

[blind_one]

I would avoid it. I don't want the negative vibes from jealous women and white knight crusaders.

I would, however, invite both of them to stop by my place after they're done with the party. Whoever accepts first gets the c0ck.

Bold, I like it.

Indeed it is unnecessary to complicate things for yourself. Instead make it so that you can only win.

Profit .

 

[sodbuster]

Since you were busy and declined both.... I'd message one and tell her to come over after their party, Then message the other one and "make it up to her" on a different night.....

 

[grayclif]

Since you were busy and declined both.... I'd message one and tell her to come over after their party, Then message the other one and "make it up to her" on a different night.....

What I was wondering was if I committed to the first date request and the then was asked to attend the same party by another plate. I would either have to lie and cancel with plate one or tough it out. Seems an awkward position to be placed in.

 

[sodbuster]

It does help to know a bit about your plates.....