"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dry City, just ain't feeling it.

negativefcf

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Wassup guys,

I recently moved to Boston and the weather here is pretty ill (mad humid)... everything is so dry. I recently met this pretty good looking girl (HB7/8) but she's all homegirl (i.e. likes to stay home, no clubbing). However, she likes outdoor activities (theme parks, parade, sh*t like that). She loves rides,etc. She also likes the wet stuff, i.e. water-related.

Boston is great for the nightly social scene, but for outdoor activites, it's mad weak. The problem is that Boston is such a dry city. The closet place is Six Flag in Springfield which is like a fvckin two hours drive. Anyway, I was wondering for people who live in the area (or people who live in dry city).

1. Where should I go/do as an alternative?

2. For Boston specifically? Any recommendation for "wet" activities?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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get a hotel room with a jacuzzi
days inn & suites pretty cheap
 

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Originally posted by Mack Bishop
get a hotel room with a jacuzzi
days inn & suites pretty cheap

^^^ :cheer:
 

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Look for something around the Charles River for the 4th of July weekend. Maybe rent a paddle boat for the fireworks if you can.
Damn party on the river.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you have a car you have lots of places available to you. Cochituate lake in Natick has boat rentals as well as Hopkinton state park on Route 85 right off Route 9. Walden pond in Concord is a good swimming hole although a bit too crowded. If you don't wanna stray far from the city there's always Revere beach right off the Blue line train, and there's an ocean beach somewhere in Quincy. I'm pretty sure there are activities on Charles River but I think it would be a bio-hazard to swim in that dump.
 

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Whats up man. I would suggest in addition to taking her somewhere outdoors during the day you take her out at night. Although she may not be into the bar/club scene, it may be because she never has tried it. If that's the thing you want to do with her you should introduce it to her. If she doesn't seem interested, ask her if she wants to have an fun and exciting night. She probably won't want to seem boring so hopefully she'll agree to go out. Now iI wouldn't reccomend takinh her to any club that is to crazy. Maybe a place that is a little more mellow than most where you can just chill out.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
If you have a car you have lots of places available to you. Cochituate lake in Natick has boat rentals as well as Hopkinton state park on Route 85 right off Route 9. Walden pond in Concord is a good swimming hole although a bit too crowded. If you don't wanna stray far from the city there's always Revere beach right off the Blue line train, and there's an ocean beach somewhere in Quincy. I'm pretty sure there are activities on Charles River but I think it would be a bio-hazard to swim in that dump.
Thanks. Do you recommend Pleasure Bay??
 
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