"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Drunken ONS

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nan3109

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Has anyone had a drunken one night stand where they tried to make a relationship out of it AFTER the one night stand? Like, did any of you do that and then try to make it into something more? Is that even possible?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My m8 managed it. He told her the next morning "u know, we could just forget this ever happened or we could make something more out of it". she agreed and they've got on well for 4 months now.

i'd say it was a fluke they hit it off though
 
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Cant say I have ever tried. I wouldnt want to make a serious relationship with a sl*t like that!! I know one dude however who had a ONS, and the girl wouldnt leave him alone afterwards, spent the next 2 weeks in his house 24/7, until he had to practically throw her out the fukcing door!!
 
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From what I read,

ONS in the states are a rare issue,

Thanx god I am in europe...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by captn caveman
From what I read,

ONS in the states are a rare issue,

Thanx god I am in europe...
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What? Depends...If your good looking and got some game and your in a situation were alcohol is involved, there actually quite easy to pull here in the US.

I would say the level of competition is higher here in the US than anywhere else in the world thats all. Your game has to be tight here.

I dunno about you euro's, but I kinda like it that way to be honest. Girls are easy/slutty enough as it is. I couldn't imagine it being any worse.
 
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Typically it is understood between both people involved in the ONS that it's going to be just that, a ONS. However, if you feel like you want to spend more time with her, call her and set something up. She may feel the same way as you, and is going through the same dilemma that you are.

Whether or not you want to start a relationship with a ONS is up to you. Most guys are too insecure about that and can't trust a woman who slept with them on the first night. They assume that if the woman slept with them, that they *must* be easy and a wh0re. Doesn't really say much for their own self-esteem but that's another issue. You'll have to date her for a little while, and get to know her. See if she's a person that you think you'll be able to trust. There are pleanty of women who choose to have a ONS because they want it, not because they can't control it. And if you can learn to trust that they will be committed to you then I say go for it.
 
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A while back I met a girl at a club. I met her within the last 15 mins of the club closing. She gave me her # and wanted me to come to her apt and go in the jacuzzi with here and her 2 hot roomies. I normally don't call the girl until later and all that but she did invite me over. So I get there and her roomates are already passed out and she was waiting for me and it was just her and I in the hot tub. The girl liked to talk and had a very hot body and nice big boobs any who I eneded up having a ONS with her that night. While were talking I kinda mentioned that I have never been with more than one girls at the same time. This was my first one by the way!!! Left the next morning and decided not to call her cause she's prolly a sloot anywayz. After a few dayz she calls me. I was like OK should I answer it or what, so I did and we got to talking and she said why don't you come over tonight and play a little. I was like well, I'm kinda going out with my friend tonight (which I wasn't) Just kinda messing with her a little bit. I get over there and it was me and her and the 2 hot roomies. We started drinking some drinks and what not and low and behold the 2 hot roomies start making out. OMG one thing led to another and the girl I had the ONS with looked at me and said we'll take care of everything. Hell I skipped the 3 some and dove head first into a 4 some. It was really awkward and all that but really fun. I learned a lot about myself that night.

I still talk to the girl to this day. Her and I know that our realtionship purely sexual no strings. I've known her since August now.

-Jeremy
 
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