"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Has anyone had a drunken one night stand where they tried to make a relationship out of it AFTER the one night stand? Like, did any of you do that and then try to make it into something more? Is that even possible?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My m8 managed it. He told her the next morning "u know, we could just forget this ever happened or we could make something more out of it". she agreed and they've got on well for 4 months now.

i'd say it was a fluke they hit it off though
 
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Cant say I have ever tried. I wouldnt want to make a serious relationship with a sl*t like that!! I know one dude however who had a ONS, and the girl wouldnt leave him alone afterwards, spent the next 2 weeks in his house 24/7, until he had to practically throw her out the fukcing door!!
 
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From what I read,

ONS in the states are a rare issue,

Thanx god I am in europe...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by captn caveman
From what I read,

ONS in the states are a rare issue,

Thanx god I am in europe...
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What? Depends...If your good looking and got some game and your in a situation were alcohol is involved, there actually quite easy to pull here in the US.

I would say the level of competition is higher here in the US than anywhere else in the world thats all. Your game has to be tight here.

I dunno about you euro's, but I kinda like it that way to be honest. Girls are easy/slutty enough as it is. I couldn't imagine it being any worse.
 
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Typically it is understood between both people involved in the ONS that it's going to be just that, a ONS. However, if you feel like you want to spend more time with her, call her and set something up. She may feel the same way as you, and is going through the same dilemma that you are.

Whether or not you want to start a relationship with a ONS is up to you. Most guys are too insecure about that and can't trust a woman who slept with them on the first night. They assume that if the woman slept with them, that they *must* be easy and a wh0re. Doesn't really say much for their own self-esteem but that's another issue. You'll have to date her for a little while, and get to know her. See if she's a person that you think you'll be able to trust. There are pleanty of women who choose to have a ONS because they want it, not because they can't control it. And if you can learn to trust that they will be committed to you then I say go for it.
 
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A while back I met a girl at a club. I met her within the last 15 mins of the club closing. She gave me her # and wanted me to come to her apt and go in the jacuzzi with here and her 2 hot roomies. I normally don't call the girl until later and all that but she did invite me over. So I get there and her roomates are already passed out and she was waiting for me and it was just her and I in the hot tub. The girl liked to talk and had a very hot body and nice big boobs any who I eneded up having a ONS with her that night. While were talking I kinda mentioned that I have never been with more than one girls at the same time. This was my first one by the way!!! Left the next morning and decided not to call her cause she's prolly a sloot anywayz. After a few dayz she calls me. I was like OK should I answer it or what, so I did and we got to talking and she said why don't you come over tonight and play a little. I was like well, I'm kinda going out with my friend tonight (which I wasn't) Just kinda messing with her a little bit. I get over there and it was me and her and the 2 hot roomies. We started drinking some drinks and what not and low and behold the 2 hot roomies start making out. OMG one thing led to another and the girl I had the ONS with looked at me and said we'll take care of everything. Hell I skipped the 3 some and dove head first into a 4 some. It was really awkward and all that but really fun. I learned a lot about myself that night.

I still talk to the girl to this day. Her and I know that our realtionship purely sexual no strings. I've known her since August now.

-Jeremy
 
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