"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drunken Girl Spilling Guts

HellHathNoFury

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Ever since I've known her (almost a year) she has said little to nothing about her real feelings until she is filled with liquor. This shi+ can be quite confusing at times. What comes out of her mouth ranges from "I love you" all the way to break-up talk. Getting her to open up has been always been difficult. Except for a few times. Can any one relate to dealing with these types of chics?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yuriy777

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A little. I wouldn't party with a girl like that... If she wants to talk to you she can talk to you sober. Otherwise, just ignore her at parties.

What's the worst that can happen?
That she won't confuse you with her mixed signals? ...Big loss.
 

Lifeguard

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She's got you on the emotional roller coaster, and you don't know how to get off the ride. Get rid of her until you learn how to handle women like this. You are letting her beta you into being her emotional tampon. Not good , bro.
 
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