"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Drunken Girl Spilling Guts

HellHathNoFury

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Ever since I've known her (almost a year) she has said little to nothing about her real feelings until she is filled with liquor. This shi+ can be quite confusing at times. What comes out of her mouth ranges from "I love you" all the way to break-up talk. Getting her to open up has been always been difficult. Except for a few times. Can any one relate to dealing with these types of chics?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yuriy777

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A little. I wouldn't party with a girl like that... If she wants to talk to you she can talk to you sober. Otherwise, just ignore her at parties.

What's the worst that can happen?
That she won't confuse you with her mixed signals? ...Big loss.
 

Lifeguard

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She's got you on the emotional roller coaster, and you don't know how to get off the ride. Get rid of her until you learn how to handle women like this. You are letting her beta you into being her emotional tampon. Not good , bro.
 
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