"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I just got back from a little bar sarge action and am completely pissed but thought id share....plus im still decently buzzed

approach #1

chatted with two hb7s. Used a TD style opener and the reaction was great. Tons of kino within seconds but the convo died after a few minutes.
Another guy was hitting on them earlier and as soon as I approached they labeled him as a friend.haha... He must have used an indirect bs opener.
indirect has a poor conversion rate and although it gets a newb in set you will not get laid!!

side note: I could have re-opened these girls but my wingman is lame and wanted to leave so if you are in the socal oc area and would like to sarge lemme know!

#2
approached a smokin hb9. Used the TD method for opening again and her response was great!! Beautiful rack and gorgeuos smile. This girls is a player.
The convo went from how I thought she was a player and girls always like being noticed for their social skills it seems.
Sadly her friend dragged her away because my wing was nowhere to be found and I was getting some mad kino from this girl!! ahahhh im pissed
not sure how to remove a *****y friend by myself!!

#3
I didn't use the TD method and got low IL. She seemed to tolerate the convo but was less than enthusiasitic. She was really hot but this is socal and she isnt out of my league.

This reaction from approach #3 is what I am used too, but as things evolve I hope to move away from this newb model of approaching and giving off all the wrong signals.


I actually had this super cutie say something to me but I ****ed it up and just kept on moving thu the crowd...sigh


If you haven't read TD's posts on bristollair I suggest you do because he has some great advice!!! The main new thing I incorporated was value adjustment as soon as the interaction started by talking to the girls while looking in another direcion,except approach #3 . It felt weird but really worked!

Anyway thoughts appreciated as always!

As for me, im drunk, horny but one step closer to some tight game!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OC girls. The only girls I know. :p

I wonder if the girls here are that much different than the rest of the country.

What city did this happen in?
 

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if you dont know its the hottest girls 4 sure
 
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