"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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saber

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So I just got back from a little bar sarge action and am completely pissed but thought id share....plus im still decently buzzed

approach #1

chatted with two hb7s. Used a TD style opener and the reaction was great. Tons of kino within seconds but the convo died after a few minutes.
Another guy was hitting on them earlier and as soon as I approached they labeled him as a friend.haha... He must have used an indirect bs opener.
indirect has a poor conversion rate and although it gets a newb in set you will not get laid!!

side note: I could have re-opened these girls but my wingman is lame and wanted to leave so if you are in the socal oc area and would like to sarge lemme know!

#2
approached a smokin hb9. Used the TD method for opening again and her response was great!! Beautiful rack and gorgeuos smile. This girls is a player.
The convo went from how I thought she was a player and girls always like being noticed for their social skills it seems.
Sadly her friend dragged her away because my wing was nowhere to be found and I was getting some mad kino from this girl!! ahahhh im pissed
not sure how to remove a *****y friend by myself!!

#3
I didn't use the TD method and got low IL. She seemed to tolerate the convo but was less than enthusiasitic. She was really hot but this is socal and she isnt out of my league.

This reaction from approach #3 is what I am used too, but as things evolve I hope to move away from this newb model of approaching and giving off all the wrong signals.


I actually had this super cutie say something to me but I ****ed it up and just kept on moving thu the crowd...sigh


If you haven't read TD's posts on bristollair I suggest you do because he has some great advice!!! The main new thing I incorporated was value adjustment as soon as the interaction started by talking to the girls while looking in another direcion,except approach #3 . It felt weird but really worked!

Anyway thoughts appreciated as always!

As for me, im drunk, horny but one step closer to some tight game!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OC girls. The only girls I know. :p

I wonder if the girls here are that much different than the rest of the country.

What city did this happen in?
 

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if you dont know its the hottest girls 4 sure
 
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