"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drunk girl who once ljbf'ed me

Backbencher

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...Tried to kiss me tonight.

She was drunk out of her mind, lying on the ground at an outdoor party with a girl friend of hers.

We're good friends but she ljbf'ed me about a year ago. I never tried anything since then. But tonight when she saw me she suddenly started being overtly affectionate, kept on touching me an even tried to kiss me. And she kept calling me "my love". But I was kind of embarassed as she was extremely drunk + her girl friend was lying right next to her + another prospect of mine was waiting for me a few meters away. So basically I didn't take advantage of it and left. I probably would've regretted it if I did something and so would she.

Yet I feel like I passed on my one and only chance with her. What would you have done? In your experience, do those occasions occur again after a first time? Is there any way to induce such an episode without the alcool? Would it be mean of me to take advantage of her in such a situation?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bat

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The real question you should be asking yourself and us is:

Why do I (you) still care about getting laid by this girl?

She LJBF'd a year ago. Didn't you spin plates during this time? Didn't you get laid during this time? Didn't you hook up with other chicks at this time? What about that prospect who was right there? Don't you care about hooking up with her?

Don't be fooled, she was just drunk. She probably still thinks of you as a cuddly nice friend who won't take advantage of her and will treat her like a princess. That ship has sailed. Plus, it's just ONE girl...out of what a thousand that you must've at least seen during this time.

Making a thread about your old one-itis still shows that you're not over her. Go out there and spin plates. That's the only way to cure and salvage this situation you're in.

NEXT!
 

Prodigy746

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She was DRUNK...thread over.

Even if you were an ******* and wanted to take advantage of her while she was drunk , do you think her friend would let your do it?? I think not
 

betterthandead

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I used to hang around girls for friendship, then as I thought deeper they serve very little purpose. It's much better having them as activity friends, there is nothing wrong with that but socializing with males is much better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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