"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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drunk dialing..

foomee

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ok so um anways... i kinda like this girl and i got very very and i mean VERY drunk friday night. i don't remember half of it and i checked my dialed numbers the next day and i had called this girl 4 times, starting at 2am and then every half hour till around 3:45am... so yeah, i really would like to ask her and find out what i said to her and if i said anything embarassing. now what's the best way to go about with fixing this situation? i don't want to seem wussy and needy and say i'm sorry or anything... but i'd really like to find out what i said and what she thinks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JonJack

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Most probably you did do something embarassing. Best thing to do is not bother about it. If you do see this girl, you can ask her about it. Don't go calling her again to find out what you said or did.

Try not to go too far with the booze since you're pretty much aware that you're very capable of drunk dialing.
 

PRMoon

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drunk dialing is funny!

I've drunk dialed a bunch of girls and when I saw them again they told me that I drunk dialed them and it was cute. I wouldn't worry about it to much but try not to make a habit out of it. It's cute once but if you do it over and over again you're going to become "that guy" and you don't need that drama.

Next time you see her just start talking to her like normal, appologize or anything just normal how do you do talk. If she brings it up (and they usually do) she'll likely think it's funny (assuming you left a clever drunk voicemail somewhere in there) then just laugh with her and let her know you got a little tipsy. She should be okay with that. If not tell her to get the stick out of her a$$ and move on.
 
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