It was about mid night one night..so i decide to give this hb9 a call..it was ringing when a dude picked up..and saying "Dont talk to my girl blah blah blah" which really caught me by surprise..i know for a fact this chick digs me..should i try again? or is the bridge already burnt
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
amoka
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What was your response when he said to not "call his girlfriend."? I envision two possibilities:
1. The girl told the guy about you calling her which means she does not "dig" you. It could possibly be that this guy is not her boyfriend. But either way it does not matter... or
2. The guy is insecure of his girl.
In either cases, you should have responsed "Yeah, I'm calling to let Stepheny know that I don't appreciate her calling me late at night. I noticed her missed call on my phone and I'm returning her call.."
1. The girl told the guy about you calling her which means she does not "dig" you. It could possibly be that this guy is not her boyfriend. But either way it does not matter... or
2. The guy is insecure of his girl.
In either cases, you should have responsed "Yeah, I'm calling to let Stepheny know that I don't appreciate her calling me late at night. I noticed her missed call on my phone and I'm returning her call.."
maybe she was too drunk..we're really good friends so the unlikeliness of her trying to avoid me is slim and none. Ill try again in a few days. Either way, its no biggie..she was just my top prospect..there are more in line:rockon:
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
That's pretty funny. I've done that to girls that I didn't want to talk to a few times.
If the chick wanted you she wouldn't have let someone else answer her phone and say that. Girls are protective of their phones for reasons,if they let their gaurd down(let someone else answer and talk smack to you) then they don't care what you think.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.