It was about mid night one night..so i decide to give this hb9 a call..it was ringing when a dude picked up..and saying "Dont talk to my girl blah blah blah" which really caught me by surprise..i know for a fact this chick digs me..should i try again? or is the bridge already burnt
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
amoka
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What was your response when he said to not "call his girlfriend."? I envision two possibilities:
1. The girl told the guy about you calling her which means she does not "dig" you. It could possibly be that this guy is not her boyfriend. But either way it does not matter... or
2. The guy is insecure of his girl.
In either cases, you should have responsed "Yeah, I'm calling to let Stepheny know that I don't appreciate her calling me late at night. I noticed her missed call on my phone and I'm returning her call.."
1. The girl told the guy about you calling her which means she does not "dig" you. It could possibly be that this guy is not her boyfriend. But either way it does not matter... or
2. The guy is insecure of his girl.
In either cases, you should have responsed "Yeah, I'm calling to let Stepheny know that I don't appreciate her calling me late at night. I noticed her missed call on my phone and I'm returning her call.."
maybe she was too drunk..we're really good friends so the unlikeliness of her trying to avoid me is slim and none. Ill try again in a few days. Either way, its no biggie..she was just my top prospect..there are more in line:rockon:
kdnash82
Master Don Juan
That's pretty funny. I've done that to girls that I didn't want to talk to a few times.
If the chick wanted you she wouldn't have let someone else answer her phone and say that. Girls are protective of their phones for reasons,if they let their gaurd down(let someone else answer and talk smack to you) then they don't care what you think.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.