"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drunk again

cave dweller

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Drunk again................

3 weeks ago we broke up and she drove off with some stud in a white Jaguar.

He is slipping her panties off tonight!----Damn..........and I am laying around here getting drunk----again.
Ain't life grand.
Wow, my sh*t is weak.........

cave dweller
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jay Fiedler

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Hey, I know how you feel and its not easy. Honestly the best thing you can do is NOT drink while you're feeling this way. It just makes things worse.

Trust me you WILL get better, but it is going to take time. The key is to not think about her, if you catch yourself starting to call up a buddy or read a book or anything to get your mind off of her. A year from now you'll look back at this and laugh..trust me.

Good luck.
 

CLOONEY

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The thing is to not think about what SHE is doing, but what YOU are doing. Concentrate on yourself and how your life is going!

Plus things arent all a fairy tale for her like you are making out in your head. They will be fighting and going through all the sh*t that girls put you through!! She is OBVIOUSLY not worth your precious time!!
 

comic_relief

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You are in a oneitis.

Don't let what happens to her affect you. You should not even be affected by her.

I know that you are in your beginner stage of becoming a DJ(Maybe not, I don't know how you were before but...) after a while you will get over her just like every other girl. Don't worry about it. Here read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42742

When I started DJing I was in a oneitis but I got over it. If I can get over one anyone can get over one.
 

MindOverMatter

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Go out tommorow, and get 3 phone numbers. By the time you're done, you will on such a natural high that you wont even think of her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cactus3178

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^ Damn straight.

Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.

Even if it's just a few dates or whatever.
 
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