"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cave dweller

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Drunk again................

3 weeks ago we broke up and she drove off with some stud in a white Jaguar.

He is slipping her panties off tonight!----Damn..........and I am laying around here getting drunk----again.
Ain't life grand.
Wow, my sh*t is weak.........

cave dweller
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hey, I know how you feel and its not easy. Honestly the best thing you can do is NOT drink while you're feeling this way. It just makes things worse.

Trust me you WILL get better, but it is going to take time. The key is to not think about her, if you catch yourself starting to call up a buddy or read a book or anything to get your mind off of her. A year from now you'll look back at this and laugh..trust me.

Good luck.
 
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The thing is to not think about what SHE is doing, but what YOU are doing. Concentrate on yourself and how your life is going!

Plus things arent all a fairy tale for her like you are making out in your head. They will be fighting and going through all the sh*t that girls put you through!! She is OBVIOUSLY not worth your precious time!!
 
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You are in a oneitis.

Don't let what happens to her affect you. You should not even be affected by her.

I know that you are in your beginner stage of becoming a DJ(Maybe not, I don't know how you were before but...) after a while you will get over her just like every other girl. Don't worry about it. Here read this

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=42742

When I started DJing I was in a oneitis but I got over it. If I can get over one anyone can get over one.
 
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Go out tommorow, and get 3 phone numbers. By the time you're done, you will on such a natural high that you wont even think of her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cactus3178

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^ Damn straight.

Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.

Even if it's just a few dates or whatever.
 
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