"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I took 100mg of an edible and then I got a call from my gf that she was at her moms and could I grab her on my way out of the city. Ever see the movie Wolf of Wall St when he takes the qualudes and can barely crawl down a couple feet of stairs at the golf course? Pretty much that. I don’t think anyone knew but I’m pretty sure I was drooling.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the only drug I recommend- adderall for productivity, I've started it and its changed my life for the better.

if you're stuck on someone romantically or infatuated, it basically shuts off that part of the brain so you can just work and not overthink.
if you're socially anxious, it boosts your ego so you don't gaf. also, if you struggle with other addictions (esp sexual ones) it basically kills your libido so you don't hyper obsess over getting someone.

don't recommend anything else. for me imo it also kills my desire to do any other drugs or drink so you don't even need other drugs

My friend whose done LSD and MDMA has basically fried her brain (that's what she told me) at 21 and she can't get dopamine anymore even with copious amounts of adderall.
 
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the only drug I recommend- adderall for productivity, I've started it and its changed my life for the better.

if you're stuck on someone romantically or infatuated, it basically shuts off that part of the brain so you can just work and not overthink.
if you're socially anxious, it boosts your ego so you don't gaf. also, if you struggle with other addictions (esp sexual ones) it basically kills your libido so you don't hyper obsess over getting someone.

don't recommend anything else. for me imo it also kills my desire to do any other drugs or drink so you don't even need other drugs

My friend whose done LSD and MDMA has basically fried her brain (that's what she told me) at 21 and she can't get dopamine anymore even with copious amounts of adderall.
If there was ever something that sounded like an escape from reality, adderrall sounds like it must be it. No offense but this sounds terrible. Libido suppression? False ego, numbing emotions? Truly I would want to die.
 

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If there was ever something that sounded like an escape from reality, adderrall sounds like it must be it. No offense but this sounds terrible. Libido suppression? False ego, numbing emotions? Truly I would want to die.
I'd say it just makes you not care about normally pleasurable stuff that people like because you're already getting the dopamine from adderall. and the dopamine from the drug just makes you wanna work and be productive 24/7, but when you're working or doing that task you feel great instead of bored and lazy.
 

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the only drug I recommend- adderall for productivity, I've started it and its changed my life for the better.

if you're stuck on someone romantically or infatuated, it basically shuts off that part of the brain so you can just work and not overthink.
if you're socially anxious, it boosts your ego so you don't gaf. also, if you struggle with other addictions (esp sexual ones) it basically kills your libido so you don't hyper obsess over getting someone.

don't recommend anything else. for me imo it also kills my desire to do any other drugs or drink so you don't even need other drugs

My friend whose done LSD and MDMA has basically fried her brain (that's what she told me) at 21 and she can't get dopamine anymore even with copious amounts of adderall.
I would strongly advise not using adderall for any sustained period, to me it's purely recreational, great for social situations, I'd sooner take adderall at a festival or party. The best productivity drug is Modafinil, hands down, it's also way cheaper and easier to get.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The best productivity drug is Modafinil, hands down, it's also way cheaper and easier to get.
Hey, just wondering @FlexpertHamilton if you were able to get this prescribed over counter? I looked it up Modafinil and there's not much information on how to get it near me. I've heard good things about Wellbutrin and non stims because the comedown on Adderall is terrible, so much brain fog, and occasionally now experiencing irregular heart beats. I'm supplementing with Magnesium and other vitamins but I'm starting to look into alternatives for my "off days" so I was just curious about where/how you got it from.
 

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Hey, just wondering @FlexpertHamilton if you were able to get this prescribed over counter? I looked it up Modafinil and there's not much information on how to get it near me. I've heard good things about Wellbutrin and non stims because the comedown on Adderall is terrible, so much brain fog, and occasionally now experiencing irregular heart beats. I'm supplementing with Magnesium and other vitamins but I'm starting to look into alternatives for my "off days" so I was just curious about where/how you got it from.
No, you can get it from a site that sources Modafinil from overseas pharmacies. PM me if you want a link.
 
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