"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dropped Plate wants back in.

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Starwolf

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reason why i dropped her:

At first she started to nag a lot.
Asking me to take her to nicer places to eat or spend more time with her.

I put up with it for a while then dropped her when one day I asked her how she was doing.. she started bringing up all this drama.

and claimed that I somehow got off on hearing about her problems and struggles...... :confused:

I told her if you ever tell me some kind of BS like that again i'm just going to put you aside.

she responded with "not a problem baby you are allowed"
haha got to give her credit tho for a response like that. i Felt like a pvssy

But Anyways I still went No Contact.
About 2.5 months have now passed

She texts me today:
"I Miss you" followed by a smiley blowing a Kiss

edit: she also called me a few days earlier to say she was gonna come by and return something i had lend her a long time ago. I told her i was at work and that she could leave it in my mail. when i came home the mail was empty.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2.5 months is a long time. Thus, her interest in you is probably minimal. Perhaps she is just bored, and wanted to see if you would respond. Anyway, it won't hurt to put her back into the rotation as long as your expectations are extremely low.
 
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not necessarily. sometimes a little radio silence can do some good, if she still sees you as a high quality guy
 
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Chico said:
2.5 months is a long time. Thus, her interest in you is probably minimal. Perhaps she is just bored, and wanted to see if you would respond. Anyway, it won't hurt to put her back into the rotation as long as your expectations are extremely low.
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No its not...some plates come back after years. OP did a good job..let her stew for another 2 months...
 
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