"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dropped Plate wants back in.

Starwolf

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reason why i dropped her:

At first she started to nag a lot.
Asking me to take her to nicer places to eat or spend more time with her.

I put up with it for a while then dropped her when one day I asked her how she was doing.. she started bringing up all this drama.

and claimed that I somehow got off on hearing about her problems and struggles...... :confused:

I told her if you ever tell me some kind of BS like that again i'm just going to put you aside.

she responded with "not a problem baby you are allowed"
haha got to give her credit tho for a response like that. i Felt like a pvssy

But Anyways I still went No Contact.
About 2.5 months have now passed

She texts me today:
"I Miss you" followed by a smiley blowing a Kiss

edit: she also called me a few days earlier to say she was gonna come by and return something i had lend her a long time ago. I told her i was at work and that she could leave it in my mail. when i came home the mail was empty.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Chico

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2.5 months is a long time. Thus, her interest in you is probably minimal. Perhaps she is just bored, and wanted to see if you would respond. Anyway, it won't hurt to put her back into the rotation as long as your expectations are extremely low.
 

GS750

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not necessarily. sometimes a little radio silence can do some good, if she still sees you as a high quality guy
 

mikey2012

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Chico said:
2.5 months is a long time. Thus, her interest in you is probably minimal. Perhaps she is just bored, and wanted to see if you would respond. Anyway, it won't hurt to put her back into the rotation as long as your expectations are extremely low.
No its not...some plates come back after years. OP did a good job..let her stew for another 2 months...
 
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