Dropped a plate

KindredSpiritzz

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Ok so I been seeing this plate for about 2 months. She wanted me to come up to see her on sunday, I said I wouldn't make any promises but we'd see what sunday looked like. I had a 2nd plate spend Friday and Saturday at my place and didn't know when she would leave sunday so i couldnt make plans with plate 1. Anyways, sunday comes, weathers kinda crappy so I tell plate 1 I wasn't coming, plate 2 had wore me out anyways. Plate one gets upset, tells me she knew it probably wasn't going to work with the distance from the beginning, says she hopes I find what im looking for. I ask if that means she doesn't want to see me anymore and she doesn't respond, a few hours later I send her some texts on the football game and she doesn't respond and nothing this morning either, she always says good morning. Im thinking I just leave this plate on the ground and move on. She was always DTF and I kinda liked her but she wasn't "the one" and she was getting to be high maintenance but she was a reliable plate. Just wondering what you boys think? Go no contact, leave her drop or reach out in a few days? I have other plates spinning I haven't had time to meet yet so im leaning towards replacing her with one of those.
 
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lol, from your communication with her and this thread you seem a little slow. She already disconnected bro! it's already over. Happy fishing.
 
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Hmmm, radio silence since sunday, now she texts me this morning that today is her dead sons birthday.
Emotional tampon time?
I just said , " must be tough, remember him the way he'd want you to and celebrate the life he did get to live.
Bet i could still spin her, but not sure i want to. Pros and cons both ways to think about.
 

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Never burn a plate. Just keep them in the background for when your plate number gets low. Reliable DTF plates are not easy to replace. I once phoned a girl who I hadn't talked to in over a year. After a few minutes of chit chat, she says "do you want to come over?"
 

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I could of spun her back up but i let her drop. She was a needy plate and it interfered with my keeping other plates spinning.
But I do agree with what you said for most plates.
 
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Guys, sometimes I wonder if we get too "hard" and callous
Was this a good woman? If so, she didn't deserve to be treated this way.

She was probably counting on you to provide a distraction the day before a very tough day for her.

I am sure someone will come along and call me a simp, and that's ok. But we are supposed to be improving overall as men...........and that means how we treat other people.
 

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Hmmm, radio silence since sunday, now she texts me this morning that today is her dead sons birthday.
Emotional tampon time?
I just said , " must be tough, remember him the way he'd want you to and celebrate the life he did get to live.
Bet i could still spin her, but not sure i want to. Pros and cons both ways to think about.

Anyone with kids knows how tough this day would be. If she has treated you well, then I don't think you treated her fairly in this case.

My motto is "Protect your wallet, protect your heart" and firmly believe that BUT

I think we have to remember we are dealing with human beings
 
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