"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Droping girl because of past relationship...

Taviii

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
732
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
We went out today, all was great until I looked at her phone and it was full of sms and calls from this other guy. Worse gets worse and I found out it is her ex (with whom she was together 2 years) and she met me one week after he left her.

So I feel like a pupet, being played and sh!t just for her to feel better after being dumped...

She begs and me to get back together but its hard. She told me she loved me many times before but its hard to think that she loved another guy when she was sleeping with me.

Anyways I need some opinions from people with a clear mind, should I give her another chance or is it not worth it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
Taviii said:
So I feel like a pupet, being played and sh!t just for her to feel better after being dumped...
Stop thinking you are the victim here because you are not. You are fvcking her right now and not this guy. Her past belong to the past and every chick you will meet has probably done the deed and fell for other men, so learn to live with it.

Although the least this girl could have done is block his number.
 

Bobbles

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 10, 2005
Messages
49
Reaction score
0
Location
England
Stop thinking you are the victim here because you are not. You are fvcking her right now and not this guy. Her past belong to the past and every chick you will meet has probably done the deed and fell for other men, so learn to live with it.
All true, however some girls have the decency to break contact with the ex. Personally I would hope the girl would do that. It shows class and respect.
 

Taviii

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
732
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
DJDamage said:
Stop thinking you are the victim here because you are not. You are fvcking her right now and not this guy. Her past belong to the past and every chick you will meet has probably done the deed and fell for other men, so learn to live with it.

Although the least this girl could have done is block his number.
Ahhh, she calls and sends sms to him back, thats whats bothering.
 

Memorex

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2007
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Her ex is looking for a booty call and shes considering giving it to him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Beware of becoming the Rebound Guy! :nono:
 

Drum&Bass

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 13, 2005
Messages
1,190
Reaction score
35
Age
46
Location
I travel
I looked at her phone and it was full of sms and calls from this other guy. Worse gets worse and I found out it is her ex
you fucked up stupid !!! why are you looking through shit that doesn't belong to you ?? You made the right decision, unless that girl you were seeing has lesbian tendencies she probably wouldn't be interested for long in a pussy (like you).

p.s. in the future go with the flow and stop worrying about being used, be thankful your enjoying your time with her now because it may or may not last. The memories you have of people are the good ones not the "I wonder if i'm being used" memories.

Ahhh, she calls and sends sms to him back, thats whats bothering.
mind your own bizness pussy. and stop being such a bitch ass sneak, looking through her phone listening to her conversations.
 

Taviii

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
732
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Beware of becoming the Rebound Guy! :nono:
At the time I didnt knew I was rebound material...

Her ex is looking for a booty call and shes considering giving it to him.
Might be, good point.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Taviii said:
At the time I didnt knew I was rebound material....
You're saying that there weren't any signs that she was just coming out of a relationship? You mean that these actions of hers just started happenings out of the blue?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

knglerxt

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2005
Messages
232
Reaction score
0
Age
45
Location
South Carolina
She sounds like one of those girls who can't stand being alone. She was in a 2 year relationship and only a week after he left her she's already with another guy.
 

Scought

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2003
Messages
265
Reaction score
2
Location
Portland
Why would you drop her?

That's JUST as bad as her going back to her EX. Either way, you get no play.

Ignorance is bliss...(for the most part). You looked for trouble and you found it.

Perhaps this is a confidence issue. You couldn't let well enough alone, you had to validate that she liked you by snooping through her phone just to make sure.

.........
 

Taviii

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Messages
732
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
DJDamage said:
Enjoy the sex, go date other women and don't worry about it.
Thats what I'm doing, she just left from my place. Can't wait to meet my other chick tomorrow.

Thanks for the helpful advice guys!
 

Jason88

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 11, 2007
Messages
61
Reaction score
1
Location
Nor Cal
Taviii said:
Thats what I'm doing, she just left from my place. Can't wait to meet my other chick tomorrow.

Thanks for the helpful advice guys!
Its good advice to take. You're way to involved with all this drama when you should be getting yours. good luck to ya
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Top