"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drop it or try again?

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donjuanapprentice01

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Talked to that girl I like today.. Asked her out for an ice cream.. she said it's too soon since her breakup (2.5 weeks) Said she doesn't feel comfortable at this moment... :rolleyes:

What do you think guys? Was this too soon to ask her out? Should I try again later on? If so, how much longer should I wait?

Sorry, i still suck at this
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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f283000

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read the 2 STRIKES RULE

Remember a basic fact about women. If a woman is attracted to you she won't deny you. This same girl who turned you down would probably suck off the "super hot" guy at the party just 30 minutes after meeting him. Her excuse is bs. Women are slutty little creatures who will bang any guy at any time if they feel it.

read the 2 strikes rule and follow it. Give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her out again later if you wish, but I think we both know what her answer is going to be. I wouldn't be surprised if she gives you the same excuse a month from now, 2 months from now or whatever. Just remember that she is not worth waiting that long and it will only make you seem like a loser with no options if you do end up asking her again after waiting for such a time. Sorry bro.
 
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donjuanapprentice01

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Alright man, thanks.. I will try again later... She was pretty devastated by the breakup, it was a guy she had been seeing steady for a year and a half... so it's understandable... I'll try again in two weeks time.
 
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