"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Drop it or try again?

donjuanapprentice01

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Talked to that girl I like today.. Asked her out for an ice cream.. she said it's too soon since her breakup (2.5 weeks) Said she doesn't feel comfortable at this moment... :rolleyes:

What do you think guys? Was this too soon to ask her out? Should I try again later on? If so, how much longer should I wait?

Sorry, i still suck at this
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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f283000

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read the 2 STRIKES RULE

Remember a basic fact about women. If a woman is attracted to you she won't deny you. This same girl who turned you down would probably suck off the "super hot" guy at the party just 30 minutes after meeting him. Her excuse is bs. Women are slutty little creatures who will bang any guy at any time if they feel it.

read the 2 strikes rule and follow it. Give her the benefit of the doubt and ask her out again later if you wish, but I think we both know what her answer is going to be. I wouldn't be surprised if she gives you the same excuse a month from now, 2 months from now or whatever. Just remember that she is not worth waiting that long and it will only make you seem like a loser with no options if you do end up asking her again after waiting for such a time. Sorry bro.
 

donjuanapprentice01

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Alright man, thanks.. I will try again later... She was pretty devastated by the breakup, it was a guy she had been seeing steady for a year and a half... so it's understandable... I'll try again in two weeks time.
 
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