"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Driving license and confidence

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So, I'm 18 and in my country you have to be 18 to get a driving license.
This week I had driving exam and due to snow and ice, I didn't pass the exam, it was really close.
I can do it again and I have new exam in January, but it really hurts my confidence.

I'm in LTR and it actually isn't a issue.
We both live really close to each other, also we live in small city, so there isn't really anywhere to go. There is good public transport, also her older brothers drives for her all the time and I have friends and family members who drive for me.
I tried to talk with her about this, made jokes about that. She laughed and told me that so far life has been beautiful and still is beautiful, so why you stress about it, you will get it anyway soon.

Yes, I know, I/we don't need it right now, it really won't change anything. It's winter and we have nowhere to go and we can always use trains to go to bigger city. It's more comfortable and cheaper.

I think about it all the time and it kills my confidence. Guys, what do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Arnzy said:
So, I'm 18 and in my country you have to be 18 to get a driving license.
This week I had driving exam and due to snow and ice, I didn't pass the exam, it was really close.
I can do it again and I have new exam in January, but it really hurts my confidence.

I'm in LTR and it actually isn't a issue.
We both live really close to each other, also we live in small city, so there isn't really anywhere to go. There is good public transport, also her older brothers drives for her all the time and I have friends and family members who drive for me.
I tried to talk with her about this, made jokes about that. She laughed and told me that so far life has been beautiful and still is beautiful, so why you stress about it, you will get it anyway soon.

Yes, I know, I/we don't need it right now, it really won't change anything. It's winter and we have nowhere to go and we can always use trains to go to bigger city. It's more comfortable and cheaper.

I think about it all the time and it kills my confidence. Guys, what do you think?
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I think you should re-take the test in January.
 
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Your girl has the right attitude. Your driving test failure is small chips compared to what you will come across through out your life.
Enjoy success, learn from failure.
 
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Sorry i only read it roughly.

You are 18 and in a LTR? WTF? what a waste, honestly. get your license and start f*cking em b1tches.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jetleg said:
Sorry i only read it roughly.

You are 18 and in a LTR? WTF? what a waste, honestly. get your license and start f*cking em b1tches.
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What a waste? I f*ck her 2-3 times a week. She doesn't ask me anything, I can still do whatever I want. There are not many options in my area, next year I will move to another city. LTR isn't always a bad thing. It gives me everything I want at the moment.
 
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Knowing how to drive on snow and ice is a valuable skill that most licensed drivers don't have. There are a lot of driving skills that are not covered on exams.
 
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