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So, I'm 18 and in my country you have to be 18 to get a driving license.
This week I had driving exam and due to snow and ice, I didn't pass the exam, it was really close.
I can do it again and I have new exam in January, but it really hurts my confidence.

I'm in LTR and it actually isn't a issue.
We both live really close to each other, also we live in small city, so there isn't really anywhere to go. There is good public transport, also her older brothers drives for her all the time and I have friends and family members who drive for me.
I tried to talk with her about this, made jokes about that. She laughed and told me that so far life has been beautiful and still is beautiful, so why you stress about it, you will get it anyway soon.

Yes, I know, I/we don't need it right now, it really won't change anything. It's winter and we have nowhere to go and we can always use trains to go to bigger city. It's more comfortable and cheaper.

I think about it all the time and it kills my confidence. Guys, what do you think?
 

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Arnzy said:
So, I'm 18 and in my country you have to be 18 to get a driving license.
This week I had driving exam and due to snow and ice, I didn't pass the exam, it was really close.
I can do it again and I have new exam in January, but it really hurts my confidence.

I'm in LTR and it actually isn't a issue.
We both live really close to each other, also we live in small city, so there isn't really anywhere to go. There is good public transport, also her older brothers drives for her all the time and I have friends and family members who drive for me.
I tried to talk with her about this, made jokes about that. She laughed and told me that so far life has been beautiful and still is beautiful, so why you stress about it, you will get it anyway soon.

Yes, I know, I/we don't need it right now, it really won't change anything. It's winter and we have nowhere to go and we can always use trains to go to bigger city. It's more comfortable and cheaper.

I think about it all the time and it kills my confidence. Guys, what do you think?
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I think you should re-take the test in January.
 
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Your girl has the right attitude. Your driving test failure is small chips compared to what you will come across through out your life.
Enjoy success, learn from failure.
 
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Sorry i only read it roughly.

You are 18 and in a LTR? WTF? what a waste, honestly. get your license and start f*cking em b1tches.
 

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Jetleg said:
Sorry i only read it roughly.

You are 18 and in a LTR? WTF? what a waste, honestly. get your license and start f*cking em b1tches.
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What a waste? I f*ck her 2-3 times a week. She doesn't ask me anything, I can still do whatever I want. There are not many options in my area, next year I will move to another city. LTR isn't always a bad thing. It gives me everything I want at the moment.
 
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Knowing how to drive on snow and ice is a valuable skill that most licensed drivers don't have. There are a lot of driving skills that are not covered on exams.
 
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