"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Driver's license, hitting the gym, getting good grades in school.

Chamber36

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I need a license!! I'm tired of not being allowed to drive around! I am ordering a book & CD tomorrow so I can take care of it! I'm sure you're wondering how a 24 yr old doesn't have a license, well I already passed the theory but failed the practical exam because my eyes aren't 20/20. When I checked the optometrist he said I don't yet need glasses. So this time I will do my best even more.

I am also gonna get some gym shoes this week so that I can hit the gym and grow those muscles! I already worked hard on my bod all last year, I must continue!

Good grades in school is a must! I am already on the road to success. Worked my ass off over the summer holidays. Doing better than most of my classmates. They don't demand much of me, so I got to take care of that first and foremost!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sweet dude. Try not to overload yourself with too many new habits at once; you'll be more likely to fail. Instead, implement one or two major ones each month.

For example, this month I will have no energy drinks/soda, something I've been struggling with for the past 3-4 years. I've been off them since December 17 2013, but I'm waiting for the end of this month so I don't have to stagger my habits on the 17th.

Want me to rename the thread title for you so you can use this thread as a journal? Keeping one helps, especially when you go back and read it in the future.
 

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No thanks. I already have a journal.

Thx for the support though.
 
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