Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Uhh... not drink?Dustin said:Alright so I used to be a heavy drinker I would only drink alcohol 40% or higher. but I got alcohol poison once and can't stand the smell or taste of it ...it makes me sick.. What should I do?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Bad Ass Canadian said:I'm guessing you're not such a heavy drinker if one instance of getting sick has turned you off from booze.
I once swore that I would stop taking drugs unless I was going to a concert.When someone has a "problem" it means that they do drugs at inappropriate times and/or at inappropriate places.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dustin said:Alright so I used to be a heavy drinker I would only drink alcohol 40% or higher. but I got alcohol poison once and can't stand the smell or taste of it ...it makes me sick.. What should I do?
Yeah, I saw that a while ago. You have my favorite rum...as well as Knob Creek Bourbon. (I'm adding you to my respect list). I actually thought of your sig line when I had several Martini's last weekend. You lied; Unlike titties....two were not enough.Vulpine said:They think that, since I have such a huge amount of booze sitting around in my house (click the link in my sig if you haven't before), I must be drinking 24/7. To that I respond: "There is a time and place for everything."
You must've been having little "mosquito bite" martinis.Titanium said:I actually thought of your sig line when I had several Martini's last weekend. You lied; Unlike titties....two were not enough.
At that point do the liquor cabinets just become 'cabinets'?Bible_Belt said:They think that since I have such a huge amount of booze sitting around in my house, I must be drinking 24/7
I have run into that, too. Alcoholics have empty liquor cabinets, because they drank it all.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Didn't mean to stray from your point...Dustin said:I never said I ws an alcoholic...I said It makes me sick when i drink liquor.
Even cooking wine is not safe. (think I saw some in Vulpine's collection).Bible_Belt said:I have run into that, too. Alcoholics have empty liquor cabinets, because they drank it all.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.