"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drinking Alone

Reyaj

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Any of you ever drink at home alone?

I bought a six pack and am indulging watching a good movie. My friends are a bunch of doosh bags.

Just curious...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, it's nice sometimes. If your friends suck, make friends with better people.

Or maybe you're the problem as well? If everyone you meet seems like a jerk, it's probably just you. Jut trying to help.
 

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Reyaj said:
Any of you ever drink at home alone?
I have a few bottles are home for the few times I ever have a real bad day at work that I need a drink or two to settle the nerves or whenever I use it in cooking. Straight up drinking though I don't all too much.
 

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I'm a social drinker...i need to drink with someone by yourself is boring
 

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I would warn you to be careful. Drinking by yourself at home can be one of the first signs of alcoholism. The habit can be insidious whereby it will develop over many years without one moment where you realise you are drinking too often which is affecting other aspects of your life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I do it once in a while... basically when I'm either stressed out or having a bad day and nobody is available to go out.. and I need to unwind. It makes me feel better.

Gaucho, Mayweather Ortiz is almost here, Ortiz is looking strong... you think there could be an upset?
 

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I drink red wine by myself all the time. Not much into beer as it bloats you nor am i into hard liquor.
 

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I drink by myself probably two or three times a week. Its an end of the day thing ive started doing ever since I turned 21 a couple months ago. While working on homework, dinner or just watching tv with 4 or 5 drinks is completely relaxing for me. Sometimes beer, sometimes liquor.

Im well aware its a sign of alcoholism but I never lose control of my drinking in social settings or when im alone. I never black out and I always know when to stop.

My drinking has almost never negatively impacted my relationships with friends and family; which I personally think is the biggest factor when looking for an alcohol problem.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpzqQst-Sg8&ob=av2e------I drink alone....cheers
 

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I drink red wine by myself all the time. Not much into beer as it bloats you nor am i into hard liquor.
I try to drink a glass of red wine after every meal for health purposes, and usually do till I run out of wine and become lazy and don't go get another bottle for weeks ;)

The only other alcohol I drink is when going out with friends to the club to loosen up. I try not to drink beer at home to not develop a habit of it. I rather keep beer for socializing.
 

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I'm a full blown alcoholic, so yes. I prefer social drinking, but if it's not the weekend or no one wants to hang out it doesn't stop be from indulging in my beer time.

-Scars
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Reyaj said:
Gaucho, Mayweather Ortiz is almost here, Ortiz is looking strong... you think there could be an upset?
Yeh, almost here, pretty exciting card actually. I think Mayweather wins this hands down though, just picks Ortiz apart and pot shots him to an easy win. Of course, there is always the chance of a 1 punch KO, but slim chances here I think.

Sir Psycho, definately impacting friends or family is the biggest problem, anything other damage your doing is most likely only to your own health which is entirely upto you.
 

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f283000 said:
I try to drink a glass of red wine after every meal for health purposes, and usually do till I run out of wine and become lazy and don't go get another bottle for weeks ;)

The only other alcohol I drink is when going out with friends to the club to loosen up. I try not to drink beer at home to not develop a habit of it. I rather keep beer for socializing.
I'll drink beer out with friends but almost never buy beer for the house. I just don't get anything out of drinking beer at home. But a nice couple glass's of wine makes you mellow and is very enjoyable.
 

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I want to hate George Thorogood but can't...

The other day I got invited to a party,
but I stayed home instead
Just me and my pal Johnny Walker,
and his brothers Black and Red
And we drank alone, yeah,
with nobody else
Yeah, you know when I drink alone,
I prefer to be by myself
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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