"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drinking Alcohol while sarging - a mild amount actually 'improves' things???

Guitar_Whizz

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I know this has been dicussed to death, but I was thinking about the subject of drinking alcohol when it comes to socialising.

I am pretty much a non-drinker, but drink occassionally.

Whenever I have a couple of drinks, I've noticed I'm still 'in control' yet slightly more confident. Could it actually be a GOOD thing to have a couple of drinks from time to time, just to ease your inhibitions, as long as you don't get to the point of being 'out of control'?

Remember in 'The Game', Style said this about drinking: "Drinking alcohol never made me do anything I didn't want to do, it just made me do the things I was to scared to do while sober".

I can relate to that quote.

However, I do not advocate alcoholism or using drink as a crutch. And I don't think drinking to excess is good for your health. Neither are hangovers.

But I have realised that a couple of drinks every now and then just to ease the odd inhibition has no adverse effects, therefore is it such a bad thing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ligyron

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i think i'm probably more natural when i'm drunk. i'm better at speaking my mind and i can carry on a conversation longer. when sober, i'm thinking too much about what to say or what to say next or how i'm coming across, but when drunk im caught up in the conversation only and awkward pauses are nonexistant. i need to have a nice buzz going to get to this point. the problem is not taking it so far to the point where you're missing out on things, not noticing body language cues, sending the wrong signals, etc, dont get that drunk. i'd like to be able to be this person when i havent had anything to drink, but ive been unable to figure out how to do that yet. im too self conscious i guess
 

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Why drink when you can do a couple lines of blow? :crazy:

That'll help.
 
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