Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Drinking Alcohol while sarging - a mild amount actually 'improves' things???

Guitar_Whizz

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I know this has been dicussed to death, but I was thinking about the subject of drinking alcohol when it comes to socialising.

I am pretty much a non-drinker, but drink occassionally.

Whenever I have a couple of drinks, I've noticed I'm still 'in control' yet slightly more confident. Could it actually be a GOOD thing to have a couple of drinks from time to time, just to ease your inhibitions, as long as you don't get to the point of being 'out of control'?

Remember in 'The Game', Style said this about drinking: "Drinking alcohol never made me do anything I didn't want to do, it just made me do the things I was to scared to do while sober".

I can relate to that quote.

However, I do not advocate alcoholism or using drink as a crutch. And I don't think drinking to excess is good for your health. Neither are hangovers.

But I have realised that a couple of drinks every now and then just to ease the odd inhibition has no adverse effects, therefore is it such a bad thing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think i'm probably more natural when i'm drunk. i'm better at speaking my mind and i can carry on a conversation longer. when sober, i'm thinking too much about what to say or what to say next or how i'm coming across, but when drunk im caught up in the conversation only and awkward pauses are nonexistant. i need to have a nice buzz going to get to this point. the problem is not taking it so far to the point where you're missing out on things, not noticing body language cues, sending the wrong signals, etc, dont get that drunk. i'd like to be able to be this person when i havent had anything to drink, but ive been unable to figure out how to do that yet. im too self conscious i guess
 

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Why drink when you can do a couple lines of blow? :crazy:

That'll help.
 
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