"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Drinkin, Fighting & F*****g

englishman

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Hey guys years ago I lived in a small town, I was an angry young nut who drunk and fought like there was no tommorow and could never figure out at the time why I had women literally throwing them selves at my feet....looking back I think it was the alpha male stuff I was exhibiting balanced out by the fact I had a kid and was a great and proud father, also It was a small town and kind of like a stage/theatre where chances are if you met someone they knew you..... now Im older in a different country and big city, If I step outside I seldom if ever meet someone I know and It seems difficult to have an edge...because its a city people can only go off what they see, material sh*t that kind of thing, which Im not really intoand to be honest cant stand....any thoughts on what my strategy should be?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Only that artists shouldn't carry rifles.
 

cave dweller

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ok

englishman,

Go to the basics:

Confidence and a smile,----------they can't resisit it.



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