Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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englishman

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Hey guys years ago I lived in a small town, I was an angry young nut who drunk and fought like there was no tommorow and could never figure out at the time why I had women literally throwing them selves at my feet....looking back I think it was the alpha male stuff I was exhibiting balanced out by the fact I had a kid and was a great and proud father, also It was a small town and kind of like a stage/theatre where chances are if you met someone they knew you..... now Im older in a different country and big city, If I step outside I seldom if ever meet someone I know and It seems difficult to have an edge...because its a city people can only go off what they see, material sh*t that kind of thing, which Im not really intoand to be honest cant stand....any thoughts on what my strategy should be?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Only that artists shouldn't carry rifles.
 

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ok

englishman,

Go to the basics:

Confidence and a smile,----------they can't resisit it.



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