"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Dressing

splinterkb

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2004
Messages
750
Reaction score
4
Age
40
Location
Minnesota
Looking wierd usually isnt associated with looking good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Scrumtulescence

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 23, 2004
Messages
947
Reaction score
3
Age
45
Location
Inyurvij Eina
Originally posted by doctoroxygen
Similarly, I was out this weekend and about 19/20ths of the guys were wearing jeans and button-up shirts.

It was so pathetic.

Both of these statements are true. Neither of these situations is more pathetic than the other. The dudes in your lair wear that sh!t because Mystery told them to. The dodes I saw this weekend wore that sh!t because society told them they wouldn't get made fun of if they wore it. At least wearing weird stuff in public requires some courage, regardless of how effective you think it is.
LOL, yeah, sure. Only difference being those guys at the seminar went out of their way to look like freaks; those guys you saw over the weekend threw on what was in their closet.
 

Soprano

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
715
Reaction score
3
Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
LOL, yeah, sure. Only difference being those guys at the seminar went out of their way to look like freaks; those guys you saw over the weekend threw on what was in their closet.
but at the same time u could say they went out of their way to look normal and get those things in their closet ;)
 
Top