"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dressing conservatively

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Upon graduating from college i landed a job in an advertising firm. The dress code was really strict, as the male employees had to wear a suit to work everyday (tie included).

The women however dressed sloppy! Open toe shoes, no hosiery, and sometimes flip flops --- almost not even a business casual look.

This trend was practiced in 95% of the businesses i had dealings with during my tenure as an advertising sales executive. Call me ridiculous, but i think dress codes should apply to everyone--not just male employees.

Has anyone else ever experienced this in their job?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not Quite There

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yeah, and women like men in suits.

i like wearing a suit, and i dress sloppy a lot of the time.
 

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Back in the 60s, women wanted equality. Thats fine.

Now, they want empowerment. This is the result of such empowerment.

When I went to elementary school, we werent allowed to wear hats in the school. I never cared until I saw girls wearing them, and it was ok. I never understood the contradiction.

Its like this in most clubs too. My gf and I went to a club wearing cowboy hats. I was asked to remove it, she wasn't. Double standard much?

Your ad firm is a company that is under the heel of feminazis. They want to be above the rules. They want to look like whors and have the opportunity to seduce their way to the top, all the while claiming that they still don't have equal power that men do. They're right. They have more.

Business should enforce a strict dress policy for all workers if they do have one. People should be judged on their merit and profitability in business and not the sexiness of their legs or how high their a.s.s. is.
 

snintel

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Actually, I'm gonna bet it's NOT feminazi's. The boss/owner just wants to check out all the ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tristan22

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Actually the females didn't dress sexy, they dressed like slobbish barn hogs! Wearing suits everyday isn't cheap, so seeing them dress casually really got annoying.

Women seem to have the world by the a$$ right now!
 

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barn hogs....you are from the midwest???:box:
 

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Same thing at my job - It's business casual, but the women get away with all kinds of ****. I've seen jeans, flip flops, yesterday a woman was wearing a hoodie?! Meanwhile I'm wearing a collared shirt, khakis, and some spit-shined leather shoes . . . Definitely not cool . . .
 

Ricky

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You are right. They dress to show off ****.

Kind of pisses me off, because I wouldn't date anyone from work anyways as we know what kind of nightmares that can produce.

**** EM.

I pretty much bust on all the girls at work, just to practice, but I watch the line. Don't want a harassment suit!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Coolage

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Tristan, its that way everywhere. Suits cost a lot plus need to be dry cleaned.

Such is "equality".
 

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Yes I've experienced it too - right down to one of my mates being told off for not wearing a tie when the office was boiling.

Yet the women wear what the hell they want.

It disgusts me.
 
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