"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dress for Success

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What do you guys wear if you
a) Go to college/university
b) Go to a club
c) Go to a house party
d) Go out for dinner


Dressing isnt all about what you wear. Its what you feel comfortable with. If you got confidence, a good cologne and arrogance in what you put on, it will show.

a) Dark Blue Jeans/ yellow collar shirt
b) All white , white jeans, white shirt, white jacket.
c) Black jeans/ pink collar shirt
d) Denim outfit
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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College: Usually jeans, T-Shirt and a zip-up hoody on normal days. I'll wear one of those button-up, longsleeve collar shirts if I wanna look nice, and I'll wear sweatpants and a sweatshirt on hang-over days.

Club: Not old enough yet :(

House Party: Usually the jeans/T-shirt/button-up combo.

Diner: Jeans and a nice shirt.
 
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Club: Not old enough yet
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eh? Where do you live? Almost all clubs have at least 1 18+ night a week.
 
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school: jeans and a tight jumper

club: jeans, dark jacket, colored collar shirt

house party: as above

dinner: as above
 
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Originally posted by Julian
eh? Where do you live? Almost all clubs have at least 1 18+ night a week.
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I'm at school in Minnesota...

There could be a club like that, but if there is I'm not aware of it. In all honesty, I haven't really checked :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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a) Go to college/university

If it's warm: shorts, sandals, tshirt. and oakleys and a cap.

If it's cold: pants, probably cargo pants, hoodie, beanie type hat.

b) Go to a club

Most clubs have dress codes. I need a pair of clubbing shoes bad. If anyone has any really cheap ideas, let me know!
Anyways, button down shirt, black baggy pants. And a cigar.

c) Go to a house party

Almost identical to the club-wear.

d) Go out for dinner

If its a nice restaurant, dockers, button down shirt, etc. That routine you know.
 
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a) hoodie (with outer jacket), corduroy jacket, cap/skully, walking shoes, jeans, t-shirt

b) nice pair of walking shoes, casual jeans/khakis, button down shirt, dark leather jacket or something casual, geled or messy hair.

c) either A or B or mix, depending what type of house party

d) casual shoes, button down shirt, casual jacket, geled hair maybe, khakis/jeans
 
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hmmm...

a) Go to college/university - Blue Jeans and a T-shirt

b) Go to a club - White shirt, white jeans white jacket is my favourite, but i do wear different things on most occasions.

c) Go to a house party - Depends what i feel like wearing, but seeing as though most of my cloths are stylish, it doesnt really matter what i wear, it all looks good on me;)

d) Go out for dinner - Same as "c", but i'll just try to make an effort to look more 'smart".

Shoes (Excluding slip-slops etc) - I have 5 or 6 pairs of shoes which i vary, depending on what i wear.


Laterz...
 
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