"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dress for Success

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What do you guys wear if you
a) Go to college/university
b) Go to a club
c) Go to a house party
d) Go out for dinner


Dressing isnt all about what you wear. Its what you feel comfortable with. If you got confidence, a good cologne and arrogance in what you put on, it will show.

a) Dark Blue Jeans/ yellow collar shirt
b) All white , white jeans, white shirt, white jacket.
c) Black jeans/ pink collar shirt
d) Denim outfit
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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College: Usually jeans, T-Shirt and a zip-up hoody on normal days. I'll wear one of those button-up, longsleeve collar shirts if I wanna look nice, and I'll wear sweatpants and a sweatshirt on hang-over days.

Club: Not old enough yet :(

House Party: Usually the jeans/T-shirt/button-up combo.

Diner: Jeans and a nice shirt.
 
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Club: Not old enough yet
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eh? Where do you live? Almost all clubs have at least 1 18+ night a week.
 
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school: jeans and a tight jumper

club: jeans, dark jacket, colored collar shirt

house party: as above

dinner: as above
 
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Originally posted by Julian
eh? Where do you live? Almost all clubs have at least 1 18+ night a week.
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I'm at school in Minnesota...

There could be a club like that, but if there is I'm not aware of it. In all honesty, I haven't really checked :eek:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a) Go to college/university

If it's warm: shorts, sandals, tshirt. and oakleys and a cap.

If it's cold: pants, probably cargo pants, hoodie, beanie type hat.

b) Go to a club

Most clubs have dress codes. I need a pair of clubbing shoes bad. If anyone has any really cheap ideas, let me know!
Anyways, button down shirt, black baggy pants. And a cigar.

c) Go to a house party

Almost identical to the club-wear.

d) Go out for dinner

If its a nice restaurant, dockers, button down shirt, etc. That routine you know.
 
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a) hoodie (with outer jacket), corduroy jacket, cap/skully, walking shoes, jeans, t-shirt

b) nice pair of walking shoes, casual jeans/khakis, button down shirt, dark leather jacket or something casual, geled or messy hair.

c) either A or B or mix, depending what type of house party

d) casual shoes, button down shirt, casual jacket, geled hair maybe, khakis/jeans
 
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hmmm...

a) Go to college/university - Blue Jeans and a T-shirt

b) Go to a club - White shirt, white jeans white jacket is my favourite, but i do wear different things on most occasions.

c) Go to a house party - Depends what i feel like wearing, but seeing as though most of my cloths are stylish, it doesnt really matter what i wear, it all looks good on me;)

d) Go out for dinner - Same as "c", but i'll just try to make an effort to look more 'smart".

Shoes (Excluding slip-slops etc) - I have 5 or 6 pairs of shoes which i vary, depending on what i wear.


Laterz...
 
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