"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luveno

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I come from a backwards ass hole in the ground where style is a million miles away. However, I always dress my best! Seeing as how school is underway and the work is piled neck high, I need to find a resource for style!!!!!! After reading JT43619s post(sp?) and how he effortlessly banged some faker chick, I am wondering what kind of style he has?

Additionally, if anyone else who is stylish and knows what they are talking about when it comes to dress has any suggestions, Id be happy to know about them.....


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I can say is to wear clean clothes that FIT your physique -- not too tight, not too lose. If you let a shirt hang out, don't let it drape further than 3 inches or so below the waist. Make sure the shoulders are aligned -- nothing with the shouders half way down your arm. If you wear a tie make sure it's a single windsor knot. Pants should be the right length -- nothing that bunches up at the bottom and nothing too far from the ground -- I prefer a boot cut. I get compliments on my outfits from women AND men -- hey, i'll take a compliement from anyone!
 
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Do a search for "clothing style" in the anything else forum. There should be a couple.
 

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Melrose Avenue (or whatever is the equivalent in your city)

Cool, fashionable, hip, edgey. You can go just slightly trendy, risk blending in with the crowd, but still be comfortable in what you're wearing OR you can peacock to the extreme, push the envelope, get lots of AIs, and risk getting seriously sh ittested every time you open your mouth.

There's goth, metro, punk, industrial, jock, business, and vintage styles. Pick one.
 
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