"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Luveno

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I come from a backwards ass hole in the ground where style is a million miles away. However, I always dress my best! Seeing as how school is underway and the work is piled neck high, I need to find a resource for style!!!!!! After reading JT43619s post(sp?) and how he effortlessly banged some faker chick, I am wondering what kind of style he has?

Additionally, if anyone else who is stylish and knows what they are talking about when it comes to dress has any suggestions, Id be happy to know about them.....


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LucidDreamer

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All I can say is to wear clean clothes that FIT your physique -- not too tight, not too lose. If you let a shirt hang out, don't let it drape further than 3 inches or so below the waist. Make sure the shoulders are aligned -- nothing with the shouders half way down your arm. If you wear a tie make sure it's a single windsor knot. Pants should be the right length -- nothing that bunches up at the bottom and nothing too far from the ground -- I prefer a boot cut. I get compliments on my outfits from women AND men -- hey, i'll take a compliement from anyone!
 
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Do a search for "clothing style" in the anything else forum. There should be a couple.
 

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Melrose Avenue (or whatever is the equivalent in your city)

Cool, fashionable, hip, edgey. You can go just slightly trendy, risk blending in with the crowd, but still be comfortable in what you're wearing OR you can peacock to the extreme, push the envelope, get lots of AIs, and risk getting seriously sh ittested every time you open your mouth.

There's goth, metro, punk, industrial, jock, business, and vintage styles. Pick one.
 
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