Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dress Code

wildchild

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Recently ive been wearing hawii style shirts when going out to clubs, dont get me wrong since Ive started wearing them ive had about 4 one night stands the past 4 months ive been going out. The only problem the girl really takes the piss outta the shirts. I went home with this one girl ( who only seen me with my jacket on) took off my jacket and she said "HAAHHA I seen your earlier i cant believe ive came home with the shirt guy". Right the problem most of the girls ive pulled while wearing it are probably only 5-6s any tips on dress code?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fash

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Oh boy...

Ok before we go into what you should/shouldnt be wearing, think about what you have written...

You took a girl home, and only AFTER your took your jacket off, she realised that you were the goofy shirt guy. What does that tell you?

It is not your amazing sense of style that is taking these HBs home! It's you!

We live in a world where social programming plays a big part in women's lives and the media is the delivery mechanism of that programming. If you think back to some of the hottest guys on tv, films, etc... You will find that only the geeky, goofy, losers go out to bars/clubs in hawaii shirts. I personally dont have anything agains those shirts, but there is always a time and place.

Sure... there may be a "peacocking" factor here, but you are going about it the wrong way.

What you SHOULD wear really depends on your skin complection, your hair and your eye color and build. I would recommend reading some men's magazines and looking up some designer websites and deciding what best suits YOU.

Good luck
 

Skilla_Staz

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I don't like wearing them any more, but polo shirts work. I wear dressier clothes now a days, but I'm not sure how well you'd be able to shave your groove thing wearing some of that. Granted, I'm very comfortable in those clothes, but I haven't really tried shakin' it on the dance floor in them.
 

wildchild

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Excellent tip on reading the guys mags, ill do that from now on.
 
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