"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wildchild

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Recently ive been wearing hawii style shirts when going out to clubs, dont get me wrong since Ive started wearing them ive had about 4 one night stands the past 4 months ive been going out. The only problem the girl really takes the piss outta the shirts. I went home with this one girl ( who only seen me with my jacket on) took off my jacket and she said "HAAHHA I seen your earlier i cant believe ive came home with the shirt guy". Right the problem most of the girls ive pulled while wearing it are probably only 5-6s any tips on dress code?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Fash

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Oh boy...

Ok before we go into what you should/shouldnt be wearing, think about what you have written...

You took a girl home, and only AFTER your took your jacket off, she realised that you were the goofy shirt guy. What does that tell you?

It is not your amazing sense of style that is taking these HBs home! It's you!

We live in a world where social programming plays a big part in women's lives and the media is the delivery mechanism of that programming. If you think back to some of the hottest guys on tv, films, etc... You will find that only the geeky, goofy, losers go out to bars/clubs in hawaii shirts. I personally dont have anything agains those shirts, but there is always a time and place.

Sure... there may be a "peacocking" factor here, but you are going about it the wrong way.

What you SHOULD wear really depends on your skin complection, your hair and your eye color and build. I would recommend reading some men's magazines and looking up some designer websites and deciding what best suits YOU.

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I don't like wearing them any more, but polo shirts work. I wear dressier clothes now a days, but I'm not sure how well you'd be able to shave your groove thing wearing some of that. Granted, I'm very comfortable in those clothes, but I haven't really tried shakin' it on the dance floor in them.
 
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Excellent tip on reading the guys mags, ill do that from now on.
 
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